Transform Your Most Challenging Relationship
RELATIONAL FRICTION DIAGNOSTIC
A diagnostic process for two people who want to understand each other better. Whether you're business partners, spouses, or colleagues who keep butting heads.
For: Any Two-Person Dynamic
Connected in Relationships
Most relationship help focuses on changing behavior. We focus on understanding the pattern.
Because when you can name the pattern, you stop blaming the person. You understand it's not personal, it's Preference, Passion, or Process differences.
And once you understand that, you can bridge the gap.
When your relationships are connected, you can say: "We operate differently, and I understand why. Here's our agreement for how we'll work together."
The 3-Stage Transformation
Diagnose
Each person completes the ADVanced Insights behavioral assessment independently.
DISC behavioral styles
Values (Motivational Drivers)
Personal attributes
Result: Clear picture of each person's communication style
Translate
Joint debrief session where we map your friction points and create shared language.
Identify specific friction types
Understand each other's motivations
Create connection agreements
Result: Mutual understanding of why friction happens
Bridge
Implementation plan with specific strategies for your unique relationship.
Communication protocols
Conflict resolution strategies
Connection habits
Result: Practical tools for lasting connection
What's Included
✓ Two ADVanced Insights Assessments
Comprehensive behavioral profiles for both individuals. Measuring DISC (behavioral style), Values (motivational drivers), and Attributes (decision-making patterns)
✓ Two Conflict Reports
Shows WHERE you create friction. The 3 Types of Conflict you experience, your blind spots, and friction predictions.
✓ Joint Translation Session
90-minute facilitated session to map friction and create shared language
✓ Two Assessment Debriefs
Shows HOW you're built. DISC Natural/Adaptive styles, Values hierarchy, Attributes decision-making pattern, and your EBIB Lens Model
✓ Friction Map
Compare both profiles and calculate friction scores across all three bridges: Preference (DISC), Passion (Values), and Process (Attributes).
✓ 30-Day Follow-Up Session
Check-in to assess progress and adjust strategies as needed
Who this is for
Co-founders with chronic friction that's hurting the business
Business partners or co-managers who need to work together
Couples where work friction is bleeding into personal life
Key leader relationships where friction is costing productivity
Any 2-person relationship where friction is named, severe, and stuck
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes. This process requires both individuals to complete assessments and participate in sessions. If only one person is willing, consider starting with the Individual Awareness diagnostic.
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Typically 2-3 weeks from assessment to completion of the joint session. The 30-day follow-up extends the engagement to about 6 weeks total.
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No. This is a diagnostic and translation process. While it often has therapeutic effects, it's focused on understanding and communication rather than deep psychological work.
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All sessions are virtual, making this accessible regardless of location.
Ready to Transform Your Relationship?
Stop guessing. Start understanding.
